Tuesday, October 21, 2008







The last photo is the script that written by Xav the second week he has been tansfered back to France in June...he wrote it to christine in the music day...Christine thought it's "TEL...FRAN(ces)", so she asked him "do you want to call Frances?" he said "yes"....

Monday, October 20, 2008

Quelques visiteurs




Sunday, October 19, 2008

Xav called me "bao bei"...







I went to Bordeaux on Sept. 27...Xav's face with big happiness and sorrow when he saw me really broke my heart....I gave him his ring, he was upset when he looked at his ring and main...I told him ' this is not easy.'he said 'yes', i said ' but we have to fight, and you will recover and come back to us, you promise?!" he said very firmly "yes"...I told him about Bacchus Wine and showed him the photo of the staff, he laughed and said "bravo"....addition to weakness, not balance, and the logic thinking, he is very normal...we took a walk together in the garden, he hold me, looked at me in the eyes and kiss me like before...he took photo for me, opened the bottle of water for me and when i said "cold", he wanted to share his scarf with me...he even joke with me...one morning, Wally brought a bottle of bear, he asked Xav if he wanted some, he said 'yes'. i told Xav, no, not to drink bear in the morning...then i went to room to get my camera, when i came back, i could smell his mouth with bear, then i asked him ' did you drink bear?' he said ' no' , then looked at me and laughed...

It's more and more difficult for Xav along his recovery..we have to fight very hard with the center in order to take him back to his room, instead of leaving him in the patients room together with others at night according to the center's regulation...i can see he really hate being there.. Xav's spirit locked in the weak body, he has a will, but can not control...i couldn't sleep at night for all the suffering he has only being there for 2 weeks ...i have to give my best regards to Christine for her great mother's love being with Xav everyday for all these months...

But we are so lucky to have so many great friends and family being with us and support...during this two weeks, we had been invited to the friends Babeth & Guy,and Alex's , and the family Patric& Sylvie etc..Alex Willam and his wife Maryline with their 6 weeks baby drove from Paris to Bordeaux, HK friends Terry and his wife Jenny came...these love from friends and family really give me great support, every time when i feel I'm going to collapse, i think of these and full of hope again...many many thanks from my bottom heart!

The day before i left France, Xav was not in a good condition, he had a fever after the operation and very very weak...i told him I would go ..he keep on asking me "why"...I gave him a pen and asked him to write to me...I said to him "you can write, write my name, you remember my name, right?" he said "no" with a "you are stupid" look on his face...then he took the pen and write on the paper very difficultly two letter " L O "....


Frances Yu

Monday, October 13, 2008

Visiteurs pour Xavier




Cet été, Xavier a été gâté par les nombreuses visites qu'il a reçues.
Frances est venue passer 2 semaines auprès de lui.

Xavier au 14 octobre 2008



Xavier se trouve actuellement à l'hôpital Pellegrin à Bordeaux. Jeudi 2 octobre, il a été hospitalisé pour recevoir le volet en résine destiné à reconstituer son crâne.
L'opération s'est bien passée, et une semaine après, Xavier était de retour à Cénac, dans son centre de rééducation.
Un oedeme étant apparu quelques jours plus tard, Xavier a été reconduit à l'hôpital où il est actuellement en surveillance.
Selon le chirurgien qui l'a opéré, il n'y a pas lieu de s'alarmer, tout est normal.

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Xavier is currently at Pellegrin Hospital, in Bordeaux. On Oct.2, he had an operation
to receive a resin flap intended to rebuild his skull. The operation went well, and one week later, Xavier was back in Cénac, in his reeducation center.
Last Sunday, because of an oedema outbreak, Xavier was returned to the hospital where he is now closely monitored.
However, the surgeon who is taking care of him states that we don't need to worry, everything is normal.